Now that I’m using the Metro again to get around I can’t help but use the time to sit in somewhat quiet, especially if I’m using my headphones, and ponder the great many questions about life. This morning was nothing different, given I was half asleep and we got stuck in the tunnel on the East LA extension of the Gold Line.
With the upcoming LGBT Veteran Event I’m producing at Patriotic Hall, I have many things going on upstairs and have difficulty concentrating on anything for any extended period with out my mind drifting over to the planning and coordination of the event. If you have no clue what ever I’m referring to, please visit http://op-dadt.aver-gla.org and educate yourself.
Any who, between thinking about if certain political leaders have confirmed attendance and where I will be placing the many service providers, I took a moment to enjoy the scenery. And did I ever…. There was this stocky Latino standing across from me, and this guy was a looker. I found myself studying him, the way he was dressed, how his head was freshly shaved, the artwork and possible meaning behind his tatts, how he carried himself, how he walked across the platform, how he shifted his weight when standing. OK, I’ll admit I was starring, but I tried not to make it overtly obvious that I was. I tried to camflauge my stares by looking down at my phone. And, I ask you what would you be doing in my shoes?
I bring this up cause I finally came to the realization that this is the “type” of guy that gets my attention and I find the most attractive. I know, how cliche… Listen up, I have dated many “types” and races, even sexes… And no not just a typical man and woman, I’ll let that fester for a min………… When I’m asked what is my “type” I always say, I don’t have one and that I like all kinds of guys, but at times Latin guys get my attention most of all.
So, this morning while being stuck in the tunnel I came to realize that I truly have a infatuation, you can say with Latinos. Not just any Latinos, I like the “type” of guy that looks unapproachable, but is a giant teddy bear, the guy with a shaved head or a very tight fade, dark brown skin and tattoos. Tattoos and modest body jewelry make any man extra attractive in my book. For the most part, it has to be tasteful and public friendly. Sometimes the gang tatts make me wanna sit on the guy’s face… OMG, did that just come out? Sorry Mom, I know you’re probably reading this. I’m just being candid and honest. Hell, this my personal blog, and if you’re a new reader thanks for checking me out. Consider yourself warned that there will be times were I throw caution to the wind and let you have it!
Well there you have it, that’s what I like, and upon reflection has been the “type” of guy I have dated or even been with the past few years… If you find this type to be scary or is a trouble maker, that is not always the case. I have found that every “type” has its problems, you have to be willing to give everyone at least a chance, you never know what may be right in front of you. I will close on this thought, my “type” of man has proven to have been the best provider and caretaker, and one hell of a lover! 😜